Hello! I am Kaiya (pronounced like Hi-ya), I am 51 and have been married to Todd for 25 years. We have 2 kids, a boy Jacob, who is 20 and a girl, Abbie who is 18. I recently moved to NC from DC. My husband still works in DC and commutes to NC on the weekends. So far, so good. So I am in a new place with no friends close by, no job, and no purpose. So, here I am.